“Give every day the
chance to become the most beautiful day of your life.”
-Mark Twain
Years ago, I stood on top of a pinnacle of rock, searching
for signs of a trail that I had lost an hour before. A loose piece of debris
slid off the steep formation; I watched it fall until it disappeared in the
mess of desert brush below. It occurred to me as a dispassionate observation
that while I would never intentionally jump to follow the rock’s path, that
whether I fell or not didn’t really matter. When I finally returned to the
trailhead after discovering that the desert moon illuminates a trail so well
that a headlamp isn’t necessary, I sat in my car and decided that regardless of
what day was my last, I wanted to die on a great day. The problem was, I didn’t
know (or perhaps didn’t remember), how to make great days for myself, let alone
how to make every day a great one.
Eventually, in a non-linear fashion more similar to the
elevation profile of a technical mountain course than a well-groomed ski slope,
intentional gratitude was the path that brought me closer to that goal. It didn’t
require that any of my circumstances change. It didn’t require me to cultivate
some superficial show of happiness and health. It didn’t require me to do more, which is good, because one can
only run so many miles or volunteer so many hours in a day.
A great day is not a day where everything is perfect. We
need pain to make us see joy, darkness to see light, sickness to see health, disappointment
to make us see success, tears to make us see laughter. Avoiding those negative pieces
of life just dims the other side of the spectrum. All things change.
How do I create a great day? I let my constant companion,
the one between my ears, tell me this:
Love as though you’ll be gone tomorrow. Respect each other as though
you’ll live forever. Dream as though time has no meaning.
Ask questions and listen to the whole answer that is someone else’s
truth. Everyone has a story; everyone is both a teacher and a student.
Laugh with God when plans must change.
Don’t be too shy; we’re all just humans sharing an imperfect attempt at
life. Timidity only holds you back from the fullest adventure you can have. You
only get one shot…why not go for it? No child strives for a mediocre existence.
Practice gratitude.
Most days, I listen.
How do you create a great day?
It’s always changing as to what makes a great day. Sometimes a new trail, other times a new experience. Sometimes something as simple as a REAL conversation with a friend....or even a stranger. I’ve realized as I grow older that Gratitude for the simple things often leads to beautiful days in my life. And being open. Open to new experiences, new ideas, and new people in my life.
ReplyDeleteAs for new experiences...I’m signed up for moab this year. I’m going to show up undertrained and ready to enjoy the experience. Are you going to enjoy the fun?