November 7, 2013

I’ve spent a great deal of time at both running and cycling events over the past several years. In some ways, they’re very similar; both are excellent forms of exercise, can offer camaraderie, give time and space to be alone, provide goals, etc. The biggest single difference that I notice is the ability, even necessity, to draft in competitive cycling. I think that is part of why, although I enjoy riding my bike, I don’t entertain thoughts of pursuing it competitively. If I succeed in running, it’s my responsibility. If I fail to reach my goal, it’s still my responsibility. There is no one to blame, there is no one to draft off of. No one can make it physically easier or harder than you. 

I generally feel that running is a better metaphor for life than riding a bike because of that fact. Running, like living, with people can certainly make things more or less enjoyable. They can push you to be better. They can make you laugh and even make you forget the miles that have passed. They can discourage you and make you want to quit. They can even carry you for short distances or keep you from making a wrong turn, but they can’t run your race. Whether you’re with someone or alone, the trail is still there and you are still the one responsible for moving down it. There is no drafting. If you want to get to the finish, you have to do the work. 

For some, there is fear in running alone (What if I get lost? What if I get hurt and no one knows or cares? How will I motivate myself?), while others fear the detrimental effects of a partner or group (What if I’m too slow? What if I could go faster? If I get used to having them, they’ll only stop showing up. People are distracting.). As in life, there is a balance to achieve. The best and most satisfied runners know how to run their own race, accepting times alone, those who pass, and those who fall behind as elements that shape the experience, but not the path. I don’t know anyone who claims to have life in perfect balance, but I also don’t know of any perfect runner. Regardless of where we are in that balancing process or how fast we’re going, we’re all still working because there’s no place to “sit-in,” only to stop and sit down or keep moving on your own.